The count of peer, companions, friends around you has actually a significant impact/influence on the acts/repute and subsequently on your destiny. You could get your errands done, problems sorted out, solutions to challenges found out and even shoulder to rely on
However if not chosen wisely the same amount of people can berate, ruin and trample your dignity, ethics and morale before the public or the ecosystem you thriving at. This often leads us to trust issues, hostile boundary building and lack of empathy. As we develop a muscle memory on a wrong notion i.e situation based
Hence here one thing is clear that a number of people around you involved in relevant transactions do actually impact.
It is apparently difficult to survive in this competent and growth oriented world without such "n" people count. Because how can you perform transactions as they are of utmost importance of survival, transaction of consumption, morale, recreation and of course energy.
As per my personal opinion a person who is having a similar pattern of transactions or cycle of transactions over a period, has either nearing the sunset of his relevance to live or is not learning/improving from the instances
But more important is how do we actually justify ourselves that we actually are that transaction worthy and if worthy then what relevant audience should be transacting, how would we present ourselves?
Alike every currency need not be necessarily accepted across all territories, emotions, energy, mindset-ideas, subject matter takeaways, these all are not exchanged with every peer, we come across. In case the person did not acknowledge or value our potency doesn't mean we are not worthy, either there are people willing to or could be the case where we could work on our potential. Some people sell eggs while some sell timber, so that wont undermine the value of either of them.
Dealing with isolation, is another very crucial thing. People often end up being in a cycle of mundane and hectic failure attempts to come out of it. Being felt isolated at least 2-3 hours a day implies that, we are conscious and sensible, maniacally driven spirits are well progressive towards their road map, yet they miss out on holistic horizons of life and lack life skills, leaving them null and void in intellects. Hence balance is utmost important.
Its always within us(self) that "what" and "how" much amount of transactions can be conducted, the core skill and decision making leads us to this conclusion. But "why" is also important and should always be consulted with self ensuring sovereignty, that gives us the purpose to be a seller and have worthy consumers who value your valued entities you produce.
It all starts with you, the peer network around you build, the destiny you frame, the image you frame that people would portray, misinterpretation and lack of trust would be a situational and delusional vibe which shall soon fade away. Our vision(physical) is always near sighted as there are way too many distractions, but getting involved/impacted from them isn't bad but not learning from them indeed is.
Its important to keep in mind that alike the transactions the peers may change around you and you may face surge/recede in them too. Time, effort and returns shall obviously vary from one core skill personnel to other, so its nothing but vain to compare between peers and side kicks. We may have same kind of path ways(apparent) but algorithm to frame is always unique. Hence focusing on self, being persistent and picking the right decision and right identification of patterns to build is crucial
Follow your heart, hear your conscience, always question your intellect and keep changing your perception on purpose.