We live in a world of freedom and influence, wellbeing, suffering, grief, joy, envy, inspiration and every possible vibe depends on the first 2 words, the only reason in the current world is apparently difficult to deal with is the improper and inappropriate utilization of freedom and influence
People mistook freedom, for ungrateful grandeur and petty acts of high adrenaline that makes them feel free man, a young man does Starbucks membership after doing job, feeling empowered and jubilant, its great, starbucks is one of premium cafe outlets, but sadly the membership would make him long for coffee every week or 2 as the offers would expire
On the same note, investing is a big advice and indeed a great one, people invest in multiple businesses or medium/form of transactions to gain good wealth for shaping their future big settlements, yet a person invests and loses his mind into these big assets way too much that either he forgets to spend for his youthfulness and enjoyment or keeps peeping on his stakes regularly swaying away from his peace of mind or work.
1st example is freedom while second is influence, are these good, definitely yes, but the post-activity takeaways why did they look ugly, cause of misinterpretation and inappropriate usage of two subject matters
Well in relationship be it romance or friendship or family ties cases how does the freedom take part. Indian style of parenting is one of the unique yet iconic styles, parents hindering their kids to learn and try new things, always there is pampering but love yet parents' souls are much matured to be aware kids' learn only if they in trouble but the younger parental self makes them pamper anyways
The same kids long for their parental influence and guidance when they on their own feet out of town/city/province. They long cause they know how important the rebuke or sermons was and how critically essential was that pampering which they despised back then
1st example is again for free will and free spirit and second again the influence of well wishers, both of the cases are quite uncomfortable to preview but 2nd case showcases the importance of 1st one and 1st case shows why is the influence that appeared satanic back then isn't that bad
2 things come into play here that is the time, its literally the horizon on which all these reality checks and events and realizations happen. Anxiety shall blind you and make you hallucinate that time is pissing you off by being slow, while lost in your own shell i.e distraction shows how fast time is ticking in actual, while reality is time is doing none other than following its nature i.e to flow/fly
Only to avoid being in your productive shell i.e not distraction but indulgence, you never know when time passes, but also you never realise how better self you have become, while to grep and grab memories making the best use of time shall also show you the amount of satisfaction you had and when you realise the time has passed, it wont piss you off rather make you smile and say "damn that was quick!!